Tuesday, 10 October 2017

Good News: Relationship Anxiety Is Normal

Good News: Relationship Anxiety Is Normal

Good News: Relationship Anxiety Is Normal

Whether you�re in a long-term committed relationship or fresh off a swiping session on Tinder, relationship anxiety can � and likely will � pop up at some point.
Whether it stems from lack of trust, fear of abandonment, questioning your compatibility or worrying about non-reciprocated feelings, most people experience some form of unease about the future of their partnership. The real issue arises when natural worry evolves into debilitating stress or results in self-sabotage that negatively affects your relationship.
Accepting that some anxiety is completely normal is the first step to keeping it at a manageable level.
When you begin to feel it spiral out of control � and have ripple affects that begin to hurt your relationship and your own mental health � here�s what you need to know about identifying the source and getting it under control.

SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY HAS REACHED AN UNHEALTHY LEVEL

�It is important to note that everyone has some relationship anxiety, and that�s to be expected,� reiterated Dr. Amanda Zayde, a clinical psychologist at the Montefiore Medical Center. �However, if you find yourself hypervigilant for clues that something is wrong, or if you experience frequent distress that impacts your daily life, please, take some time to address it. Everyone deserves to feel secure and connected in their relationships.�
Some clear signs that you�re toeing the line � or have sprinted beyond it � include �consistent emotional instability, impaired judgement, impaired impulse control, difficulty focusing and paying attention to daily tasks, feeling lovesick and sad, and a decrease in motivation, loneliness and fatigue,� says Dr. Danielle Forshee, a psychologist who specializes in relational and marital issues.
This ongoing state of mind is not only mentally exhausting and detrimental to your own wellbeing, but can ultimately lead to relationship disintegration.
�Relationship anxiety can cause people to engage in behaviors that end up pushing their partner away,� says Dr. Zayde. �For example, calling 20 times in a row, jumping to conclusions or becoming emotionally distant. It can also cause a tremendous amount of distress and distraction, as people spend hours trying to decode their partner�s behavior.�

Friday, 6 October 2017

Man who saved wife, kindergarten teacher among Las Vegas victims

Man who saved wife, kindergarten teacher among Las Vegas victims

Man who saved wife, kindergarten teacher among Las Vegas victims

A gunman perched on the 32nd floor of a Las Vegas hotel-casino unleashed a hail of bullets on an outdoor country music festival below, killing at least 58 people in the deadliest mass shooting in modern U.S. history. Almost 500 people were injured by bullets or in the ensuing chaos.

The Clark County Coroner's Office has released the names of all 58 people killed in the Oct. 1 shooting. Here's what we know about those who lost their lives:

Hannah Ahlers was a mother of three from Murrieta, Calif.

HEATHER ALVARADO
Heather Alvarado was a mother of three who lived in Utah. She previously lived in Riverside, California.

DORENE ANDERSON
Dorene Anderson was in Las Vegas with her husband and two daughters when she was killed, according to friend Marie English.

"She loved hockey. She loved the Cowboys... but most of all, she loved her family," English said.

CARRIE BARNETTE
The following statement is from Bob Iger, Chairman and Chief Executive Officer, The Walt Disney Company.

"Our hearts go out to everyone impacted by the tragic events in Las Vegas -- the victims of violence, the witnesses, and the friends and families mourning loved ones. We are especially heartbroken over the loss of one of our own to this unconscionable and senseless act. Carrie Barnette had been a member of the Disney California Adventure culinary team for ten years and was beloved by her friends and colleagues. Our thoughts are with her family, along with our support, during this incredibly difficult time."

JACK BEATON

STEVE BERGER
Minneapolis resident Steve Berger was a father of three. He worked as a financial advisor at EFS Advisors, a firm he created. According to his professional website, he enjoyed volunteering as a teacher for BestPrep, a nonprofit organization aimed at training students with business, career and financial literacy skills.

A mother of two from Garden Grove, Calif., Candice Bowers "left this world doing what she loved, dancing to country music among loved ones," according to a GoFundMe page set up in her honor.

DENISE BURDITUS
Denise Burditus' husband Tony, posted to Facebook Monday evening that his wife of 32 years died at the concert. Denise Burditus is survived by her husband and two children. She was soon to become a grandmother to five.

SANDY CASEY

Special education teacher Sandy Casey was among those killed, according to Manhattan Beach Unified School District in Southern California, where she worked.

"As you can imagine, this loss is impacting many of our staff members deeply, and while we collectively grieve, we will be working to provide support to everyone affected," the superintendent said in a letter sent to district families.

ANDREA CASTILLA

DENISE COHEN
Denise Cohen
Denise Cohen (Provided)
AUSTIN DAVIS
Austin Davis of Riverside, Calif., was 29 years old. According to his Facebook, he graduated from Centenial High School in San Diego, and worked as a pipefitter at UA Local 364.


TOM DAY JR.

CHRISTIANA DUARTE
Christiana Duarte, an employee of the Los Angeles Kings hockey team, is seen in a photo posted on the team's Twitter account.

Thursday, 31 August 2017

LA woman files lawsuit over 'double bubble' deformity from breast implants

LA woman files lawsuit over 'double bubble' deformity from breast implants

Thirty-three-year-old Vanessa has been performing music most of her life. But now the Los Angeles singer wants her identity disguised because of what she says happened last year.

Vanessa decided to get breast implants to improve her self-confidence, but she said what resulted from the surgery is known as "double bubble deformity."

A friend had recommended Dr. Martin O'Toole of Pasadena to perform the procedure.

After filing a lawsuit against the surgeon, Vanessa is claiming it was clear during her recovery that the surgery had gone horribly wrong.

"He was like, 'Yeah, this doesn't look right.' And this was after weeks of him telling me everything was going right," said Vanessa.

She claims she was not warned by the doctor that the surgery could entail the specific complications that she experienced.

In the lawsuit, Vanessa claims, "the implants that he selected were incorrect for her chest shape and structure," and that the doctor "misled plantiffs into believing no negligence occured."

"We have alleged that she wasn't given the information about the real risks about what could go wrong," said Vanessa's attorney Carolin Shining.

O'Toole's attorney sent ABC7 a copy of the consent form that his patients sign.

It does not mention "double bubble deformity," but says implant placement "can be accompanied by discomfort and/or distortion in breast shape."

In a statement, he said Vanessa "was advised as to the risks and complications of surgery, including but not limited to the possibility of deformity," adding that he "offered to correct the problem at no charge."

Dr. Debra Johnson, president of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, did not treat Vanessa, but said "malposition" is the most common implant-related risk patients are warned about.

"It's a complication I think almost every plastic surgeon has experienced," said Johnson.

There's also "implant failure" and what's called "capsular contracture" -- natural tissue scarring that makes the implant area firmer than normal.

"Sometimes it will tighten in one area and not in another. It can stretch and create a double bubble. It can tighten and elevate an implant into the wrong position," said Johnson.

Vanessa said she went to a different surgeon to correct the problem, and is now focused on returning to the stage.

"I hope that, you know, my story -- it makes other women, makes them really think about what they're doing," said Vanessa.


Tuesday, 15 August 2017

Blue Whale game: Signs parents need to watch out for

Blue Whale game: Signs parents need to watch out for


The killer Blue Whale game has arrived in India! It is targeting young adults and encouraging them to harm themselves. Shockingly, there is a sudden spurt of Blue Whale related suicides in the country, which has naturally got teen parents worried. It has been linked to more than 150 deaths across the world.
For the uninitiated, the 50-day challenge urges its participants to accomplish tasks that range from listening to music to the more dangerous self harming tasks. The challenge culminates in the participant committing suicide. Every task has to be proved with photographic evidence.

While media reports are warning parents to watch out for this killer game that many teens are playing, they are clueless on ways to tackle it. We spoke to Mumbai-based psychiatrist Dr Harish Shetty and Dr Achal Bhagat, senior consultant, psychiatry, Indraprastha Apollo Hospitals, both of who insist that psychological vigilance is important.

Signs to watch out for
Here we bring to you common signs that parents and even teachers need to watch out for:
  • If your child is spending long hours on gadgets... Also, his/her intensity of craving for gadgets.
  • If he/she is drowsy in the morning... Nearly all the challenges involve waking up at 4.20 am.
  • If he/she has started to lock his room...
  • If he/she has hurt marks on his arms or thighs...
  • If he/she has suddenly started watching horror movies or psychedelic thrillers...If he/she is putting strange updates on his social media pages...
  • If he/she has started spending time on terrace alone...
  • If he/she sympathizes with children who are committing suicide...
  • If he/she starts to withdraw from friends and family...
  • If he/she shows sudden outburst of anger...
  • If he/she loses interest in activities that they used to enjoy earlier...
Things to do
Sync your phone with your child's phone and keep a track on their mobile activity. There are many such apps available.
Do not interrogate your child. Instead try to explore by having a friendly discussion.
If you see any attempt of self harm, go straight to a psychiatrist instead of a physician.


Thursday, 10 August 2017

Yemen's civil war turns country into cholera breeding ground

Yemen's civil war turns country into cholera breeding ground

Yemen's civil war turns country into cholera breeding ground :- 

Collapsing on sidewalks and constantly vomiting, some of the Yemeni villagers barely make it to the tiny health center where doctors spread carton sheets in the backyard and use trees to hang bags of IV fluids for patients.

They are part of a stream of hundreds of suspected cholera victims that continues to converge on the center from the impoverished town of Bani Haydan in Yemen's northern Hajja province. Just hours after being infected, vomiting and diarrhea cause severe dehydration that can kill without rapid intervention.

Yemen's raging two-year conflict has turned the country into an incubator for lethal cholera: Primitive sanitation and water systems put Yemenis at risk of drinking feces-contaminated water; wells are dirtied by runoff from rainfall on piles of garbage left uncollected for weeks; farmland is irrigated with broken sewers due to lax oversight and corruption; medical intervention is delayed due to unpaid government employees and half of the country's health facilities are out of service.

The cholera outbreak in Haiti has killed more than 9,000 people since 2010, but Yemen has seen the largest outbreak of the disease ever recorded in any country in a single year. The United Nations and international aid organizations say they are shocked at the speed and scale of the outbreak.

"It's a cholera paradise," said George Khoury, head of Office at the UN Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs in Yemen. "It's a recipe for disaster."

One in every 120 Yemenis is now suspected of being sick with cholera, according to the International Committee of the Red Cross.

There have been around 2,000 deaths in the country since April 27. About 5,000 people fall sick every day and more than 450,000 more are suspected of having the disease, according to the World Health Organization.

The majority of those exposed to the bacteria known as Vibrio cholera don't fall sick and only 1 in 10 infected people develop signs of cholera. Cases are mostly treatable with a simple rehydration solution or IV rehydration.

The role the war has played in Yemen's cholera outbreak can't be overemphasized, said Adeeb al-Rassabi, Sanaa general coordinator for the Electronic Disease and Warning System, the country's epidemic surveillance system. If not for the conflict, "we would have been able to contain cholera in no more than one month, no more, no doubt."

Khoury acknowledged that U.N. agencies were caught by surprise at the rapid increase in the spread of the disease and missed an opportunity to control it in its early stages.

U.N. organizations and government health authorities initially thought the outbreak was over after a mild wave of the disease that started in October. A decline in new cases in February prompted a cut in funds to health centers and a relaxation among health monitors, said al-Rassabi.

But the outbreak returned with a vengeance in late April and Khoury pointed to the failure of the surveillance system designed to spot early cases as a primary reason for its return.

"This is like a fire alarm so if there is smoke and the system is not working, the fire will rage (throughout) the entire place," he said.

Yemen's civil war pits a Saudi-led coalition supporting the internationally recognized government against Shiite Houthi rebels. Disputes between the government and Houthis over revenues have left about a million civil servants, including 30,000 medical staffers, without salaries since September.

Rima al-Youssefi, head of the surveillance system, defended her agency, telling The Associated Press that employees work around the clock without pay. "There is no budget ... there is a severe shortage of everything," she said.

Her agency is just one of many state bodies that have been left to fall apart without help from the international community. Although the U.N. has appealed for $2.1 billion for relief work this year, only 44 percent has been funded.

In the town of Kohlan al-Sharaf, not far from Bani Haydan, doctors use overhead flashlights to examine patients in a school converted into a makeshift health center after the facility next door reached full capacity.

Cash-strapped doctors say they haven't been paid for months and some have pawned their wives' jewelry to buy clean water. Health workers tasked to monitor, collect and report data to the central agency are in debt, even borrowing money to charge their phones.

The war, which has killed 10,000 civilians, caused famine to spread to parts of the country. U.N. figures show there are 17 million people who are hungry. Nearly 80 percent of Yemen's children need humanitarian assistance while 2.2 million children suffer from acute malnutrition. Around 14.5 million people do not have access to clean water and sanitation.

The chance of death from cholera increases if patients already suffer from malnutrition or other health issues.

Last month, U.N. agencies canceled the delivery of a million doses of vaccines, saying it was already too late for the vaccines to act as a preventive measure. Another reason was concern that their uneven distribution in areas under Houthi and government control could fuel the conflict.

The strong majority of cholera-infected people, who have access to health services, survive.

U.N. agencies have set up more than 1,000 centers for treatment and are trying to compensate medical workers with stipends and help thousands of volunteers who go from door to door to spread awareness among families on how to protect themselves from cholera.

A recently updated map from WHO shows cholera has affected 22 of Yemen's 23 provinces but is concentrated in the northern region, which falls under the Houthis' control. This is where the majority of the population, about 70 percent of Yemen's 26 million people, live.

According to WHO, the Hajja province northwest of Sanaa ranks among the worst stricken areas and has a total 366 deaths since the second wave of the disease started April 27. In some areas in Hajja out of reach of U.N. agencies large numbers of Yemenis have been infected. In Bani Haydan village nearly 20 percent of the population has fallen sick or died of cholera.

The civil war has forced the displacement of 3 million people, further contributing to the problem. When newcomers to a village set up septic tanks underneath their houses not far from water wells, sewage often leaks into the drinking water.

In the cholera hotspot of al-Umayri village, where the first case was reported in Sanaa province, one water well labeled "polluted" is still frequented by barefoot boys carrying jerry cans. Near Sanaa's main water treatment plant, which pumps treated sewage to farmlands, farmers frequently break the pipelines and irrigate their farmlands with raw sewage. The harvest goes to Sanaa's residents and restaurants.

Poor sanitation and sewage are decades-old problems in Yemen, where millions depend on water wells.

Some fall under the jurisdiction of central authorities but the majority are run by individuals who sell the water to trucks owners, who then distribute it to tanks attached to households. Depending on their income, families either buy water directly extracted from wells � usually not a safe source of drinking water� or from a mushrooming number of privately owned water stations, which disinfect and purify water before selling it in bottles.

Field workers take samples from the wells and stations. Those found contaminated are ordered shut down. However, many bribe corrupt bureaucrats to get their stations or wells reopened.

Nashwan al-Attab, deputy health minister, produced a map of Sanaa province. Red dots depicted cases of cholera, many concentrated around water wells. "We believe they are contaminated ... there is no other explanation."

Cholera outbreaks will continue until millions of Yemenis get access to clean water and that will remain a challenge as long as there is war, experts say.

"My main message here is that if the cholera outbreak goes down, don't forget about Yemen and stop supporting (the country) else we may have another in a few months," said Marije Broekhuijsen, a UNICEF sanitation and hygiene specialist.

In this photo taken on Saturday, Jul. 8, 2017, workers fill bottles with water at the mineral water refilling station in Sanaa, Yemen. Yemen�s raging two-year conflict has served as an incubator for lethal cholera. (AP Photo/Hani Mohammed)

Tuesday, 1 August 2017

Doctor delivers patient's baby moments before own contractions start

Doctor delivers patient's baby moments before own contractions start

It's not every day that a woman preparing to give birth to her own child stops to deliver another woman's baby. But Dr. Amanda Hess, an obstetrician in Kentucky, found herself doing just that when she was about to have her second child and heard an emergency unfolding in the room next to her own on July 23.

Dr. Hala Sabry, who founded the nonprofit Physician Moms Group, writes on Facebook that Dr. Hess knew it would take longer for the on-call physician to reach the baby in distress than for her to throw boots over her flip-flops and help.

BOY WITH DOWN SYNDROME GOES VIRAL WITH RENDITION OF WHITNEY HOUSTON HIT

So she jumped right in, telling NBC News, "I think we ought to have the baby." Moments after delivering Leah Halliday Johnson's fourth child, her own contractions kicked in, and she soon had her second daughter, Ellen Joyce.

"I had actually taken a call the day before, so I thought really that I was working up to the last minute," Dr. Hess tells LEX 18.

"But this was literally till the last second." While Dr. Hess wasn't Halliday Johnson's primary obstetrician, the patient had seen Dr. Hess for a few checkups during her pregnancy and describes her as being "in doctor mode" during the delivery.

"I appreciate what she did for my family, and it speaks a lot to who she is as a woman and a mother, as well as a doctor," Halliday Johnson notes.

MOM WARNS OTHERS AFTER 1-YEAR-OLD TESTS POSITIVE FOR HERPES VIRUS

"It makes you feel better, bringing a baby girl into the world, knowing there are women like her willing to step up like that."

before own contractions start